Im writing about my mum and dad cuz they deserve alot and this is the less to do..
Since i was a baby , they took care of me very well, from usual things that parents do, to writing my diary in my first year, talkin about how beautiful i was 🙂 lol no really and about when i wasnt ok and my first smile, etc.. keeping some stuff that i used to use when i was a baby, like clothes and milk bottle and and when i first got teeth and bit that thing i used to put in my mouth 🙂 hehe i dono what it is.. taping my voice singing and crying lol…
The thing is i felt care since the day i was born, and when i started to grow up, they got me to a good kinder garden and school, where i learned arabic english and frensh plus other subjects..
I could tell they were so proud of me watchin me growin up and gettin high marks.. which were gettin down with time :p but i was ok..
Mum didnt let us wish for anything, all was done, almost. we knew that we cant have whatever we wanted but we can try to gain it.. whenever she noticed a talent we had, she participate us with related stuff.. as for me, swimming, piano, guitar, hourses, karate, circassian dancing and much more.. i didnt complete any of those courses :p as for my sis, swiming, hourses, karate, fencing, and much more.. Mum is the best of us all..
when me and sis who is one year younger became like 11 year old or 12, dad started to push us to this world after we knew theoritically, what was right and what was wrong.. and he used to tell us how good and bad this world is.. Both didnt control us about anything, except the limits”red lines” which are the ethics.
They trusted us i guess or didnt care that much but that helped us to make our own personality, we have different views about some point and similars about others.. they let us participate with anything we wanted.. especially useful things, like i got bronze broach in Prince Hasan Award.. that included many activities; society activities where i got trained in public medical center, camping and walkin for 4 nights, sports-basketball, and more… that was really cool adn good experience.. participated in school events where onetime i sang a sad song and made ppl cry lool funny.. now we laugh every time we see the video.. hehe
when i became tawjihi i wasnt that good student but they took really care of me, like makin me nice food and dad used to make me fresh orange juice every morning and mom used to give me her mobile to talk as much as i want hahaha many other things, and they kept tellin ppl how proud they are of their “kids” hehe
when i passed tawjihi and got in uni, they let me go by myself and register and all that stuff, they didnt make me feel that im in need, just i can do what i want by myself.. they didnt control our thoughts.. they welcomed any questions we had and still… mum bought us like a trillion book to read.. and they were with any subject we could think of.. all neighbours used to come to read from our books.. they were about animals, religions(almost all), nuclear(lol), politics, novels, circassians, arabs, cultures, languages, roses, women, men, and much more subjects..
We learned to respect people and still free to say our opinion and what we feel, to be proud and to know ourselves.. and to get our rights no matter what it costs us, and they supported us in many things with school, relatives, work, and almost everything..
We learned also to be there for our friends and support them, to be down to earth, i heard some ppl get disgusted from silly things.. but we dont.. heard of some girls can go down to down town lol I go there with my dad more than twice/month.. and we enjoy eating sadwitches from shabsough cafeteria hehe
i know im talkin alot about this subject but talk in this never ends.. so i got to uni and my grades were great and was in honor list for dono which semester.. ah when i was 18 i got my driving licence and same day a had a very small accident with taxi and dad supported me alot with that.. after years had a terrible accident (wasnt my fault) and they cared alot also and encouraged me to keep driving but to be mre careful… i got graduated with good grade 70’s hehe and my parents were extremely happy since i also got a recommendation from the dean of IT faculty.. they made me a huge party at one of the hotels for all relatives, cousins and friends.. we ate and danced and had really fun.. thanks again.
I started lookin for a job, meanwhile i didnt get any money from dad, to be more serious about the job, now, im working in one of the companies as IT support.. of course 7allait.hom men awal rateb :p lol
Alil about mum and dad before getting married, both of them are the eldest of their brothers and sisters(mum just among sisters), both were the most important in their family by taking lotsa care of their brothers and sisters, since dad’s father dies when dad was only 18 and he had 9 ppl to take care of, Mum’s parents were abroad most of the time and she had to take care of the family while was still studying..
Now dad is retired from Foreign Ministy and about to get second retirement from UNESCO-Amman. Mum got retired from Culture Ministry..
Im not trying to look like the perfect daughter having the perfect parents in the perfect family, but this is only the good side, the other side is we are like any other family, shout, yell, have fights, misunderstanding, different points of views, but still know how to keep laughing and smiling after every fight lol though some of them are really bad hehe anyway, Im proud to be Muslim, Circassian, and most important being ME.
P.S to mom and dad, i may not love you or love your ideas about alot of things or the way u deal with certain things but i surely respect you as Humans and Parents.. *bow*