I Pray Your Heaven is Warm

missing the people we love hurts so much..
like a knife with every breath..
especially when you cannot bring them back..

they hunt you in your dreams..
they smile if you want them to..
they are real if you believe..

there’s no easy way to say this..
there’s no memory without pain..
except the ones with you..

they were heaven and earth..
they were real and a fantasy that couldn’t last
Why couldn’t you last?

November reminds me of you.. because it reminds me of me..
who i am and where i wanna be..
rain reminds me of your voice… and when you look at me it’s like a thunder.. with a constant lightning
and the warmth of the fire in winter, reminds me of your love.. cold from outside but burning from the inside..

why couldn’t you last?
why fire had to be put down.. and why lightning had to go dark..
where are the stars when we lose our way? and where are the smiles when we’re cold..
where are you when I need you the most?

I pray your heaven is warm…

The Jordanian Dream

What is it? and also does it differ from boys to girls? yeah i think so..

Guys in Jordan dream of many things:
1- Cool gf while in school that he wouldnt mind shower her with gifts and mobile prepaid cards.
2- cool car to brag among his friends.
3- good job that never comes and the one they find sucks their blood and preferably in the gulf. aka Dubai.
4- Marriage, although he knows it will suck the hell out of him but he’s happy somehow. because his mother won’t nag anymore, his dad would think his son became a man, finally! and sex. then all his dreams come to an end!! a black end.
5- The ultimate dream, that would be a perfect substitute for all the above is to move out of Jordan. Having the Jordanian dream somewhere else. aka USA!
most of guys dream or “don’t mind” the American citizenship. especially teenagers and a little older than teens. “bedna nfee3!! bedna nshoof el denya!! bedna masare!!” anyway, they have a point i think.. what they gonna do here? fight with the routine?

Girls dreams are way easier and simpler!!
1- good grades n good school
2- fix herself a rich boy so he can get her gifts to brag among her friends.
3- getting engaged just to wake up and see a ring in her finger!
4- get married in a fancy hotel hall.. fancy car.. fancy home and stupid husband!
5- ultimate dream is having a happy marriage! a fairy-tale!! well, there is a happy marriage i think, when one realize that there’s also downs just like there are ups. which is not the topic here..

Of course this is not all… some have other dreams too.. like dreaming at night :p nah.. you know what i mean..

Metal Music in Jordan

The reputation of metalheads in Jordan is not so pretty because of who? government? parents? or metalheads themselves?

I started to listen to rock and metal music when I was 15 year old so that is like 11 or 12 years ago. went to metal gigs in Amman and enjoyed the live music with friends but it’s been awhile since i been to one.

Some, not all, metalheads in Jordan change their attitude, outfit and style just because they listen to metal. is this even necessary? to show others that you’re tough and listen to rock and metal? holding your guitar because it’s a must. piercing and tattoos, taking drugs, and getting drunk, etc. I’ve seen people change and I’ve seen people under drugs and alcohol just to enjoy this, and still, they hardly enjoy the music!

I’ve seen metal heads in Jordan under drugs, drunk and heard that they steal things at gigs. actually, my friend’s cam once was stolen, back in 2001 maybe, and i still can’t forget this incident. I didn’t pay attention when I should have and it was stolen. when i went to university next day, I asked friends of friends if they saw a vid cam at the gig. i was shocked when he said “I’ll ask the guys if they took one but I dont remember they mentioned vid cam” this was one of the gigs that i will never forget. and i think a story worth mentioning maybe because i think of it from time to time.. and still cannot believe how stealing things can be that normal to them!

So back to metalheads.. this is the bad example of metalheads in Jordan.. but just like any other group or fans.. there are the bad and the good. other friends I met because of this mutual interest in music were really amazing.. they listen to metal but do not take it as a life style.. it’s just a music that they enjoy.. their looks are really normal like any other people.. their attitude is very cool.. and everything else. and most important, they don’t worship Satan!

I personally think piercing and tattoos are not so cool but if that makes them happy then be it! but drugs and getting drunk are really out of question. so be careful because it’s not just hurting yourself. it might hurt others too!

After all these years and people i met, i still listen to metal along with other things. almost everything, from um kalthoum to metal! from arabic to english, french and russian. All…

People need to realize that Metal Music is just another kind of music.. both metal heads and other people who do not listen to this kind of music really need to. so stop being childish metalheads and start being open minded other people :)

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Amman Stand-Up Comedy Festival

Update:
(As per their facebook group) Tickets for December 6th & 7th are still available – all other nights are sold out!!

The Amman Stand Up Comedy Festival is back for it’s 2nd year and it’s bigger than ever! This year’s Festival has been expanded to 7 nights and will feature close to 25 comedians from around the world. The Festival will be held December 4-10, 2009 and all shows will be held at the Al-Hussein Cultural Center in Amman.

December 4th, 2009 – International Show
Maz Jobrani
Russ Meneve
Ali Hassan
Sherry Davey
Nemr Abou Nassar
Dean Obeidallah

December 5th, 2009 – International Show
Maz Jobrani
Russ Meneve
Ali Hassan
Sherry Davey
Nemr Abou Nassar
Dean Obeidallah

December 6th, 2009 – Arabic Speaking Night
Nabil Sawalha
Maysoon Zayid
Eman Morgan
Amer Zahr
Wonho Chung

December 7th, 2009 – Arabic Speaking Night
Nabil Sawalha
Maysoon Zayid
Eman Morgan
Amer Zahr
Wonho Chung

December 8th, 2009 – Arabian Night
Ahmed Ahmed
Mike Batayeh
Aron Kader
Eman Al-Husseini
Maysoon Zayed
Amer Zahr
Eman Morgan

December 9th, 2009 – Closing Nights
***Russell Peters***
Gabriel Iglesias
Angelo Tsarouchas
Larry Omaha
Dean Obeidallah
Ahmed Ahmed

December 10th, 2009 – Closing Nights
***Russell Peters***
Gabriel Iglesias
Angelo Tsarouchas
Larry Omaha
Dean Obeidallah
Aron Kader

Ticket price for each show is 25 Jordanian Dinars. For ticket info please call + 962 6 476 8267.

Doors open at 7:00 PM
Show starts at 8:00 PM

Or try these links:
http://www.ascf.jo/index.html
http://www.facebook.com/#/event.php?eid=162125487972&index=1

Egypt – Wonderland

It all started with the plane landing.. When the EgyptAir’s pilot was supposed to “kiss” the ground, he F***’ed it instead. The worst landing i’ve ever seen.. we all were like going up and down and looking at each other like what’s goin on!! Anyway, we followed the signs to reach customs and passports check. the woman at the customs said “ya rabbe ba2a bente tetla3 7elwa keda zayek” (English: i wish my daughter will look beautiful like you) I was confused and a little freaked out. then I asked her if she was pregnant and she said she was almost due. very nice woman but never I had compliments from official personnel at the airport or anywhere, as far as I remember! the nicest thing usually being said is “welcome to our country, have a nice stay. NEXT!”

On our way to the hotel, we saw a wide range of houses and buildings that really should be taken care of. they were dirty from outside, with so many trash all around. I mean their government should take extra care of this area, especially because it’s very close to the airport, and somehow gives an idea of what one should expect.

Reached the hotel. which was supposed to be a 5 star one. it was but to some other countries, it’s the standard of a 4 star. The housekeeping people were nice but the cleaning was not. the room’s phone was stolen from stone age. but the view was amazing; a small balcony with a view to the Nile and the city. very nice in the morning. and at night with all the lights and boats sailing.

First day, Too many people in this city! and a Dinner in a boat.
after we checked in our rooms and settled down, got a taxi and went to souvenirs markets like “Al-hussein” and “Khan el khaleele” around that area, can’t believe how many people in this city! learned that they are 23 mil during the day and 20 mil at night! and they drive REALLY crazy! there was a restaurant, very much like Hashem – down town Amman, but has BBQ, grilled duck, etc we ate there with cats all around. was very unpleasant and annoying but the food was good and their bread was so yummy!!
After wandering around and walking from A to Z! we went back to the hotel, took a shower and went to the Nile. there was a boat waiting for us to sail. we cruised down the Nile with dinner inside the boat, belly dancer, singer in three or four languages, skirt dancer or whatever.. after we got back to the shore, and while we were heading to the bus, an Egyptian guy said to his friend about us “moslemat agnabeyyat” lol got back to the hotel and slept like a baby.

Second day, Shopping, Opera house and Egypt soccer game!
Got up not so early, went to hotel’s restaurant for breakfast. variety of food, drinks and sweets. the view was the Nile also. was kind of relaxing to eat your breakfast with a view to the Nile.
After breakfast, we walked to some stores close to the hotel. a lot of leather stores as well, one of the things that Egypt is well known for. some expensive, some acceptable and others were cheap. so you can find whatever you need with a wide range of prices.
It was the day of the “big” Egypt-Algeria soccer match, so everyone there was worried and talking about it. and when I wanted to bargain, which by the way is a very common thing to do there, I mentioned the game and wish Egypt to win. they become so emotional and get me a discount :) smart!
I hurt myself twice while shopping.. looks like shopping knows i hate it! first one was cause i was wearing a slipper so wanted to go out of a store that had a metal chair that hurt two toes.. so much pain! second one was while checking out some souvenirs, opened a lighter in the opposite direction and burnt my hand! this was almost killed me! they got me cold water and i got myself a burn treatment from the next door pharmacy. it hurts like hell!!
So anyway, got back to the hotel, took a shower and dressed up for the Circassian Dancing performance at the Opera House. which was Amazing! as usual but the Opera House gave it a very special touch. The place is very nice, well decorated and organized.
After that, we got back to the hotel, changed and went out again to watch the game.. almost all cafes are full.. streets are almost empty! which is weird to see in cairo at that time! Italian restaurant that places the country’s flag you’re from on your table, nice touch! Also three pencils on each table so you can draw on their walls.. very creative :) too bad Egypt lost. They would have turned the streets to festivals.. and we would have enjoyed :)

Third day, Alexandria!!!
We got up so early and went to Ramses train station to go to Alexandria. they are so disorganized! got the tickets, and asked the Info lady where to go. she said “not yet” i told her i dont understand and its my first time here. she said “Not yet!! i told you Not yet!!!” not to mention it was 5 minutes before the train to leave!
While we were waiting, an english speaking guy tried to ask about things but they did not understand and he either because neither of them speaks the language of the other. wanted to help but he left before i go and offer my help.
Anyway, the train was better than what I expected. at least better than Path Train (NYC-NJ, USA) it should be because it takes 2.5 hours to reach Alexandria. on the way, we saw a lot of farms, very nice! also the cotton farms.
reached Alexandria after 2.5 hours., Sidi Jaber Station, which is kinda down town there. got a taxi and head to Fort Qaitbey, many mini markets around, selling souvenirs. Mediterranean sea was stunning as usual :) I love this sea..
Too many cats! too many cats! they are everywhere around the shore! unbelievable!
after checking out the fort, nothing very interesting except the view from up there.. really amazing.. we then took a cab and went to the city, malls and streets.. the City center mall is really nice.. their parking lot reminded me of JCpenny n Target in Cali, USA for how alike they are and reminded me also of our mecca mall in Amman for how NOT alike they are. ours is so not cool. first parking lot i think that has a residential building in the middle of the parking! which is not the issue here. then we went to the train station to get our tickets for the 7 pm train.
for lunch, we went to a restaurant called Fish Market, very beautiful, clean, organized, good service, good food, amazing view to the sea.. I give them 5/5. you pick the fish you wanna eat and tell the Chef how you like it done..
We’re full now and ready to go back to Cairo. slept all the way to Ramses station, Cairo.
We got the hotel and mom was preparing a small cake with a candle for my birthday (was next day) how thoughtful and nice of her :) she’s the best mom one can ask for!

4th and Last day! My Birthday at the Pyramids and Egyptian Museum then Amman!
Got up so early, prepared ourselves to go to pyramids. stopped a taxi that has a meter, this one thing one should be careful about when going to cairo! always use these cabs, the white ones. not the black.
Got to the Pyramids and a horses guy stopped us, asking if we need a ride in there.. he asked for 150 EGP/each including horse, guide, entrance ticket. I said NOway! and at last i could get these things for 160 EGP for both of us (me and sis) it’s like 29 USD for two horses, a guide and entrance tickets which were around 0.75 USD/both because we’re Jordanians they consider us like Egyptians.
Anyway, it was around 1.5 hrs on the horse, saw Pyramids and Sphinx.. nothing very interesting.. but worth seeing so you know the real size of each :)
Got back to the hotel, and there was still some time for the breakfast. after breakfast, we went to the Egyptian Museum. again, not really organized, and if you want a small info about the museum or its floors plan, you have to buy it. but we didnt have time anyway so we had a small tour and went back to the hotel.
Checked out and waited the bus to arrive to take us to the airport. and that was it..
Landing this time at Queen Alia Airport was very impressive! so happy to be back after four days of seeing to many people and too many cats.. and other nice funny things here and there :)

Alex

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Marketing and Advertisement in Jordan

A lot is going on in Jordan, cultural events, business, festivals, Concerts, exhibitions, etc. some we know about, and some comes and goes without a notice.

Advertising to an event, no matter what it is, should be really thoughtful and creative. otherwise, no one would hear of it and only few, if lucky, will attend. so what is missing in advertisement business in Jordan? especially when an international company or organization is sponsoring that particular event. why it doesn’t reach a wide range of people.

Some websites, organizations, and people started to take care of this, and started to realize the need of a better events advertising and marketing in Jordan. which is really appreciated.

Some of them are: 7iber.com , WAW Al-Balad magazine and couple of more I believe.

We still need a centralized and powerful announcement, marketing and advertising for all events in Jordan. and preferably organized by both the government and private sectors so we have all events covered. might also include buying tickets online and reservations, more about Jordan of course, restaurants, theaters, and other things that would help Jordanians and tourists.

This is a business idea for whoever interested :)

P.S, if we already have this in Jordan, I don’t know about it, probably because of poor advertising :\

And I fall in Love with 17 hippies

Have you ever heard a tone and just by hearing it, it made you smile.. made your soul smiles? have you ever seen a smile that made your smile go even wider and warmer? Have you ever been to a gig and never wanted to go home?

After couple of speeches at Al-Hussein Center’s theater and a short interesting documentary about fall of the Berlin wall and a Jordanian band, Sign of thyme, performed couple of songs that were quite nice.. A German band that i never heard their songs before got up on stage. they were thirteen with so many different instruments.. I did not expect anything to be honest, i thought it would be like the Jordanian band style. but then came the surprise!

They were playing folk music and interesting tone that made me smile right away.. and what made my smile go wider and warmer is their smiles.. they play with a smile.. walking around while playing their instruments singing, dancing and interacting..

I don’t know what made me fall in love with them, their music? them being cool people? their smiles? their songs that moved me? their different kinds of music n songs but at the end the same amazing style? the energy that went from them into us.. or the accordion guy? :p jk! they were all nice and amazing!

I hope they can make it to Jordan, again, soon..

Here some :)

http://17hippies.com

Government and Quality

Only here you can find both words in one line. why? is it because of the low salaries, lack of encouragement, carelessness of the higher management? ignorance of the people in charge? irresponsibility? wrong/right person on the wrong chair? or what?

How can we improve the public sector, and reach to a good quality service at the government offices, schools, hospitals, etc? does King Abduallah has to wear a mask every now and then? what is needed so people become aware of the problem we have and try to fix it?

The idea that troubles me every time i think about it is that people working at the public sectors and especially those who are in a direct contact with people, do not realize that they are going to need another department and stand in line for hours for the employee to tell them “come back tomorrow” and tomorrow “sorry its not here” or just realize that this will reflect the image of himself, his department, organization and his country! must realize the importance of what he’s doing.. or not.

I had an incident where i’ve been told “come back sunday” I told him I’m traveling (i really was but not sunday) so anyway, he said he cannot get me the file that day, so i just stood at the corner with the requested form in my hand and waited. people came and left and the answer was one for all “come back Sunday” after waiting like 20 minutes or so, he finally gave up and gave me that file to copy and get it back to him. when i did he asked: “Now, are you really traveling Sunday? :)

So please, public sectors, think of the person in front of you, and imagine yourself asking for help or a paper to be given or anything needed..

Let’s have an ideal government organizations with the help of people themselves.. regardless to who’s wrong and who’s thief, who’s where and who’s not! why not to start from the bottom and fix :) start with yourself. weather a public or private sector.

Nov 9, 2005

Amman

When I look back at this date, I remember the fear, the worry, the tears and I remember how an ugly thing like Bombings in that night brought all Jordanians together. It was some bricks and rocks that took with them some precious souls. happy faces were gone but at the same time.. a greater tougher wall has been built. the minute these rocks fell down. All Jordanians stood side by side, hand in hand to consolidate each other and to build again what been brought down.

I was at a friend’s place when we heard that a wedding party turned down, the ceiling went down on people. my friend knew some people at that wedding, friends and relatives. While i was driving back home, got a call that it was at another hotel too. the same one that one of my best friends work at. but this time it was confirmed bombings to three hotels. I still remember how i felt at that particular moment. Actually, i still feel the same when i remember. and i don’t think i will ever forget. felt like i was attacked. tried to call him. and tried to call his parents who were living at the same area. no answer. I kept calling and calling but still nothing. wanted to go there but they warned that no one can get close to that area. hours of waiting in fear and tears. hours of not knowing what was going on. and what happened to our dear ones.

At that particular night, we didn’t care who did it and how or why, we just wanted to make sure our loved ones were just fine and breathing. my friend called later. and said he’s Ok. but i still remember the weeks after that. he was in a shock all the time, of what he has seen and what could have been. he walked to the other office in the hotel 1 minute or less from the bombings away from where it happened. thank god over and over again.
God bless all lost souls and may they rest in peace. we’ll never forget them.

Jordan has been brought together, Jordanians became stronger, and became more determined to stay this way.

God bless Jordan and Jordanians.

Customer Service in Jordan

Spending all my life in Jordan, traveling here and there from time to time, shopping from everywhere, on and off line, all that and more, made me wonder.. and ask a big question that for sure been asked before. What level of customer support and service do we have in Jordan?

Customer service is a huge deal, not just answering phones, emails or listen to the customer. it’s way beyond all that.
Does our customer service in Jordan know that they cannot say “No” to a customer? do they know that almost everything should be possible to customers? if not now, should be taken as a note and studied for future better service? Do they know that if they cannot sort out an issue, it should be escalated to higher level not say “I don’t know”? and the list goes on..

The more important question is, how much a company is willing to give attention and pay for a better Customer service department? better customer service.. are they aware of the importance of this department to the image of the whole company? how close do managers and owners monitor the quality of their customer support departments?

If you’re a business owner or not, we’re all customers at the end. and we DO need a better customer service in Jordan.

So in general, from 1-10 where 10 is the best, where is our customer service in Jordan?